I’m 20…. The girl I loved left me to better her life ….her parents hate black people, she was the only one person I loved… and now… it’s been 4 years she’s never coming back I’m a year outta school and honestly…. I pray I die tomorrow🙏💔🔫, I’m to shy to chat with new girls and usually they want guys with cash…. I’m just a Rat 🐀 … and I’ll die a rat…
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You’re 20, don’t be some dramatic. The thought of be tied down never even crossed my mind at that age. Have fun and enjoy yourself and your freedom. You don’t need anyone to to complete you.
do you have any hobbies? seriously.
Get. THERAPY.
When I was your age, my BFF told me the exact same thing.
This went far, we went to the point we were following her ex boyfriend, we were staying in his neighborhood to see what he was doing…
She even said she wanted to have sex with him one more time so she could get pregnant and he would come back.
She was crying for more than a year every night.
She was telling me the exact same thing as you “I am gonna stay alone, I’ll never find someone else… ”
I told her if life made it happen, it’s because something better is waiting for her.
She was like you “naaaahhh you don’t know how I feel, he was the man of my dream… “.
She met her now husband a few years later. They have two kids together. She thanks life every single day her ex boyfriend left her cause she was able to meet her soulmate.
I know humans like to think they are different from other people, that life hate them and they are doomed.
The truth is, like most humans, you are most likely to find someone at one point.
Go out, association, bars, group activities for solo people, talk to people on the street.