So, my mom has always said things like, "Will you not leave me?" or similar comments. Once, we were talking about kids, and I said I want my kids to do boxing (I am a boxer myself). She said, "No, I don't want our kids doing that." I found it really uncomfortable hearing her say "our kids."Recently, she said, "When you start working, you will give your salary to me." I said no because it's my money. She got upset and said, "What about me raising you for 17 years?"I told her I don't have any responsibility towards her. She responded by saying she doesn't have any responsibility towards me either.Additionally, she doesn't let me close my door, insists on knowing where I am and who I'm with, and probably checks my phone. One time, she fought with my dad and ranted about him to me. She has also called me ungrateful for not wanting to take care of her in her old age.I want to move out, but she is not willing to let me go. She says she can't let go of me.I just hate her. Growing up, she would always tell me how she is the best mother and no one has a better mother than me. This woman was never there for me emotionally. I remember when I was 8 and throwing a tantrum about not wanting to go to school; she started crying, and I had to console her. As a kid, I hoped I was adopted and that my real mother would come because she wasn't emotionally caring. She repeatedly told me the only reason she had me was so I could take care of her in her old age. I remember friends' mothers being strict, but I never heard them say they doubted their mother loved them. I don't know if she loves me.I feel like a freak, like she deserves better than me.
Tldr: mom is a shit human