So i know about the whole hot-crazy matrix with "hotness" on the horizontal axis and "craziness" on the vertical axis for guys to determine if someone is a potential candidate for dating. Obviously the ideal is to maximize hotness and minimize craziness—this makes it seem like men prefer normal, predictable, traditional women and i’m wondering if being quirky is seen in a more negative light because it’s seen as a little closer to “crazy” and less predictable. What do you guys think? How attractive is an untraditional/unique personality in a girl, or is it just vastly overshadowed by other traits you look for (like beauty, kindness, faithfulness, etc)?
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