Is it bad to expect Knight in Shining Armour these days?

I feel like I'm being shamed for wanting a much stronger man to take care of me (and also for me to take care of him). I admire strong, feminist women who trailblaze in their careers but I know that's not what I want and that's not who I am. I am soft and nurturing and I care more about relationships and I want a guy to protect and provide for me. Is this so bad?