All my life the married women I know to told me that if it weren’t for the kids, they would have left their spouses long ago. Even though many of these woman seem to have a good relationship with their husbands and seem to have love for them..
This worries me a lot. I am not yet married, and I am not head over hills in love with my current partner. Should I stay with him and eventually get married and hope that the kids will keep the marriage going? Because it seems to me that this is what these women did.
I always wanted to get married and have children young! I’m 23 currently. Should I settle for the sake of my dream of a young family? Because if every woman feels the same way after a few kids and a few years of marriage, it seems to me that it is inevitable to eventually settle if you want a family.
Married women, please tell me about your experience!