We've been together over three years and lead fairly busy lives. One of the primary ways we relax together is by watching TV. We finished a show about a month ago and haven't started anything new yet. Yesterday, I remembered a show we'd talked about watching and we text about it. Today, I came home to see him finishing episode #2. My gut tightened with that tiny twinge of betrayal and I said "We just talked about watching this together…" And he defensively said he wasn't going to wait on me. I just told him to have fun then and he said "I will!"

We haven't talked about it further and very likely won't. I've gone my entire life without watching the show, but I know I won't have time or desire to watch it alone. Am I totally wrong to be kind of peeved that he "canceled" the plan to watch it together?

TLDR: Made plans to watch a show together and came home to him defending his decision to watch it alone. Is it wrong I'm struggling to shake the negative feeling this gave me?


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