I am a pastor. I have been introduced by my first name without the “pastor” title, while a male next to me will be introduced as “pastor” in the same sentence. I have been introduced as “beautiful” to congregations, I have been pet on the head by men, I have been asked during job interviews for preaching teams what I’m going to do not to distract people in the pulpit because I’m attractive, I have been told that I spend too much time with my family because I go home for lunch, when my male colleagues take off at 2pm every day to pick up children and never come back to work (and don’t hear about it).
Curious about your own stories.