Finding My Place: Am I Divergent?

I feel like I'm socially isolated and not integrated into society. This perception stems from my interactions with others, where I don't receive the same reactions as others do. People often describe me as "intellectual," which I understand to mean that I don't fit the typical social norms. Additionally, I rarely receive calls or invitations from others, and I have no close friends. I want to know the truth about my situation because if I'm indeed divergent from the norm, I don't want to give up. Instead, I want to find a niche where I can fit in and live my life to the fullest. To achieve this, I need to understand who I am and how people truly see me.