I (female) have health problems that make taking a heavily active role in sex extremely difficult and not enjoyable. Passing out, asthma attacks, seizures. Naturally, I've taken on a pillow princess role in my sex life. I'm a switch on paper, but in practice, I normally have to take on a submissive/bottoming role.
I want to give my partners the best possible experience without risking my health. I'm trying to learn dirty talk and I'm generally handsy, but is there anything else I can do?
One notable thing is I HATE giving blowjobs. I had to get my tonsils removed because of damage they caused. I don't enjoy it at all.