So I asked out a girl and we went out, at the time when I set the date she had already told me she had a 3 month holiday planned but still agreed to go out. I think it went fairly well, she put her head on my shoulder and we had very long and flirtatious conversations so it didn’t have a friendly vibe and was pretty good overall. After the date she texted me she had a really good time.
Now I believe that whatever happens happens, but assuming we will both be available in about 3 months, what would be the best way to not let the spark die out? I believe that it’s better to give her space and ask her out again when she comes back, but my friend told me if it were her she would have expected me to continue messaging her and talk through messages the whole time through. I told her I think she’s wrong and that would only make her lose attraction as we barely know each other and would just be awkward, and rekindling the spark on a second date when she’s back would be more realistic (it’s also less clingy and I do want to give her the space to have a good time on the holiday she planned for herself).
Do you think I’m right or is my friend right? What would you expect from a person you seem to like after a first date?