My former girlfriend(32) and I(28) split up 5 days ago. We had been together for 2 years. We didn't break up on a good note. She however forgot her Facebook logged in onto my computer, I noticed this when I wanted to log into mine.
As you know, Facebook on a pc displays everything including messages. So I noticed a suspicious message to one of her friends(F34). When I opened their chat, I found out that my former girlfriend is pregnant. She discovered this two days ago and straight away told her friend.
Her friend advised her to either abort the pregnancy or keep it a secret from me for life. She told another friend(F34) of hers who advised her to contact some lawyers so that I can have to contact with the baby what so ever in the future.
What kind of friends would advise their friend to hide news about a baby from the father forever. Also in theory this looks easy to do but after 4 months when her belly grows is she gonna be still think the same?
TL;DR: girlfriend's friends convincing her never to tell me that she's pregnant and never to tell me that she has a baby. What should I do. If I hadn't discovered it on messenger that she's pregnant, it would have been a problem if she had tried to tell me this in 6 months. I means I would have straight up denied the pregnancy not knowing whose it is.