I 26F read one message in notification sent by my husband to his female colleague which read 'I love you'
I confronted and he admitted he sent that as 'fun' text and it means nothing and they text such messages in a fun way with other colleagues also.
He than admitted that he did wrong and he knew I would be hurt if I came to know that he sends'I love you' like this so he deleted the chat deliberately to hide it from me and he is sorry for that.
He says he is sorry for sending and hiding the text but is firm that he is not having a affair with her.
I confronted the colleague and asked her to show the chat between her and my husband,selective texts were deleted in her chat also
She also mentioned that they have fun conversations in their work group and to prevent other people from judging she delete these messages.(since we live in a conservative Asian country).She said she is not having any affair with my husband and he loves me.
I don't use 'I love you' for colleagues so I am uncomfortable with my husband using the same.
What should I do next?
What to believe?