Am I seeing it wrong?

Hey yall, so my lady and I have kinda been having problems and I’m kinda lost. Our communication styles are different and I know it irritates both of us, I’ve tried texting all the time with her but I feel as though I get a better connection over a phone call. So, I’ve been compromising but every time I want to call her she has some sort of excuse. I’ve called her out on it and I think she’s trying to work on it. On the other hand I feel like I’m pouring myself into this relationship, I feel as though I’m putting in most of the effort persistently. We both work long hours and I understand she may be tired at the end of the day as I am but I feel as though she uses this as an excuse to not put in effort. Now I’m a very adamant person so I can take it; but for how long should I keep doing this? I really love this woman and I know that our differences balance each other out but I fear that my efforts are not going to be reciprocated. Thanks in advance!