Ok so I rarely masturbate but when I do I don't feel anything when I finger myself. I can only feel turn on if I'm touching my clit.
Like if I'm fingering myself alone I won't feel a thing, it doesn't feel good it's just meh. But if I rub my clit and finger myself that's when it feels good.
Do other girls have to stimulate their clit to feel something when you finger yourself? Or can you just finger yourself and feel something?
I'm asking because I had sex with this guy a while ago. It wasn't bad but mostly awkward. It felt kinda good when he was inside me but it only felt good for like a bit.
It feels good but because he's pretty big it mostly hurts when he's thrusting. I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong. But it was a painful ish experience.