Newly married (26F) (30M) about 4days. My husband is a silent, strong and mysterious guy. But when it comes to me he becomes the softest. I can feel that he really loves me since we were still dating. He is easily turned on by me. Even just by kissing or a peck in the neck. So the problem here, when we were about to do the deed (im a virgin) he was easily turned on, but when he was about to enter me, he noticed how hurt I really am and suddenly he went soft. This happens everytime we try to have sex since we got married 4days ago. I thought he had erectile dysfunction. But when I confronted him, he said, he can’t bear to see me hurt and he pitied my face everytime i felt pain since it was my first time. Looking back, i realized he went soft everytime he was about to enter and im in pain. I love how my husband care for me so much ….
But i really want to have sex. How do we overcome this? Any advice to lessen the pain for a virgin?