Both of us are 35. Both have great jobs, I’m a company executive and she’s an emergency room trauma nurse. We initially met on Hinge about 10 months ago. During that time, she was extremely busy, and ended up getting into a relationship with someone else. It lasted for 2 months. I remained single and about 2 weeks ago we-reconnected, finally went out on a date and had a great time. During the last 12 days she has FaceTimed me 5-6 times a day, and we talked constantly. During the first few days of talking, the “what are you looking for conversation was had” and she mentioned her 2-month relationship, how she was still working on herself, but she believed she could work towards something… slowly, but wasn’t yet ready for a relationship. Over the next few days she started to change, became sweeter, stated she couldn’t wait to see me again to hug and kiss me, she brought up a conversation about bringing families together (we both have children), and even demanded I blow her a kiss when getting off FaceTime this past Sunday night. On Monday, I my head was spinning a little, so I asked her if what she had said prior about not being ready still held true, because her behavior, at least to me, signified she was ready. I wasn’t asking her to be in relationship on Monday, I was simply asking if something had changed in her outlook.
I got no response.
On Tuesday, I sent flowers to her house. She thanked me, said they were gorgeous. I said you’re welcome, and again…
Silence.
Today I asked her point blank. If you’re done with me, can you let me know? And I finally got a response.
“Yes, I am done. I am not ready, I do not want to talk about it, please stop texting me”.
😳