My girlfriend (six months into our relationship) has expressed the idea that she would like to have sex with a woman.
It's about being interested in the female body and there's a certain thrill of the unknown that goes with it.
I've told her that I'm not suitable for an open relationship and I can't tell her whether I'll still see her the same way afterwards.
We're actually at the point where we're considering whether this relationship is something much longer-term. The foundation for a future together. Job-wise and also by interests actually sounds very promising!
Under the point that she sees our relationship as something longer-term, she had expressed the idea that in 15 years' time she might regret not having had this experience and that the timing could then be much worse.
At the same time, our relationship is worth more to her
than the attraction.
I think the thought or desire will never go away and at the same time I don't want to deny her this experience. However, I'm worried that I won't be able to cope with it or that it will have more consequences and she might end up wanting an open relationship after all.
Does anyone have any ideas on how we can find a solution together or have they had any experiences of their own? Should I give her the chance to make this experience?