23M in a big city (Chicago). I’ve been frequenting nightclubs and bars so much every weekend, in search of dating prospects. I’m in this shitty cycle of approach girl, get number, then never get a text back next morning, OR I get rejected, and the girl will say “23? Oh you’re such a baby”. I’ve literally gotten the “you’re so young/baby” rejection so much. Idk if it’s cause I’m 5’5, or if it’s my age, but damn, I’m just wondering if it will get easier when I’m 25 or 26 in Chicago than if I’m 23.
Men, does it get easier to date as I get older in a big city? I keep in shape and everything, but I just can’t get a single club or bar meetup to work! I’m asking for advice here!!