Newly married life on the rocks!

I have recently been married and my partner and his mother are constantly bulldozing and neglecting me as a person (we live together!) I feel infantilized and small. My opinion isn’t awarded the most basic respect it deserves. However yet I am expected to remain cheerful and to consistently put up a smiling face. The only person who treats me like a thinking adult is my partner’s dad and for this I like talking to him. My partner’s mother is overbearing and I don’t get along with her opinion and way of saying things in matters of conversation. I used to discuss her with my husband but I have realized now that it is not only futile but unhealthy for our relationship. I hope things get better between me and him. I do intend to make my marriage work.