Do men at the club only want “one thing”? In other words, how much of the excitement around me at raves is because others want something from me?

I'm a young woman who enjoys raves and nightclubs. I'm often the life at the party, hyping others up to have a good time. However, I often feel when I'm out with my boyfriend, it's just not as fun as when I'm with the girls. My boyfriend says that it's because I have more attention when he's not around. That even when I'm with a group of girls, there's more excitement because I'm apparently more available, more desired, and everyone is more willing to have a good time around me because they want something for themselves. I won't lie, I'm not to bad on the eyes and I dress to prove it, but is that all men around me see?