Married 2 years and before that 3 years in a relationship. To keep it short. We were great friends during uni, i (M25) can safely say maybe i liked her a bit too but i knew later on that she has a boyfriend of 3 years and counting. Fell hard for her sister (F28) tho and we got married.
After getting together with my wife to be at the time, the sister: Jay was jealous of us in a weird way, started acting strange, started disliking me and getting annoyed when i come visit. Been saying mean things and that i stole her sister her food and what not.
Today my wife was talking with Jay about a Turkish series she watches: the married heroine kisses the driver that she now fell in love with and we kinda feel happy for them. My wife was like howw!! And Jay was like.. yh kinda normal i get it when i was with my bf at the time i was in love with your husband. And then she robbed it off as a joke.
Now all makes sens… Jay always was a gentle soul and loving and caring and turned my life to hell when i started dating her sister. I lost my only friend.. never knew why.. now it hits hard knowing that.. considering that i used to like her too…
Im confused and i feel so sad… dnw what i did wrong to get in this situation.. I was nothing but kind to her and that made our relationship worse.. Now i know why she even avoids me sometimes…
Help? What to do?
TL;DR
SIL used to be best friends with me just confessed to my wofe that she used to love me even tho she was in a relationship at the time. I used to like her but backed off cz of that. Need help what to do i teel weord and confused