I have a spouse who complains incessantly

I have a spouse who has a stressful job. She brings all the days ups and downs back home. Her mood with me and the kids depends on how her day went at work. This year every detail in painstaking detail about various work activities and interactions. I feel like this is one healthy and I’ve run out of patients. What is the general view of this? I feel like I am at the end of my rope. I never bring work home. How do people feel about this?