Hi. (26M) Throwaway account.
I have been with this (28F) For a few months now. We are dating, neither of us have really labeled it yet however i suspect she want to now. We met over Tinder as she wanted to cuddle, and that lead to her spending the night st my place. It went so fast, i found her very beautiful, but it didn't really build naturally u think. She is foreign so we talk a lot sbout dufferences and customs. She is very kind, loving and on paper a catch.
However I never really had that big timgle in my stumach, or the great banter and chemistry that i have felt with others. I don't think about her that much and it's not like i get giddy about hanging out. I am apprehensive about initiating phychical contact kind of seeing it as less genuin then when she does it.
Thing is i do like spending time with her but i feel like the romantic parts never really clicked for me. It's my first serious relationship and i inow she wants to take it further by introdusing me to her family. I have told her i am not ready for that. She understood.
So my brain is on two sides now. Am i as an indicisive douch just complicating things or is this signs i may be with the wrong person?