My boyfriend (40m) and I (32f) have been together 8 years. Ever since my boyfriend took on a new job venture he no longer tries to have sex with me, I always initiate! He used to always want to have sex.
Tonight I tried initiating and he was laying straight on his back, I was on the side and when to turn his head to kiss him. He gently pushed my hand down and asked me not to move his head like that.
Then the dog wanted to go inside, I laid in bed and he came back and just laid next to me.
What is going on?! I don’t think there’s anything I can do.
He is also working a lot and it’s basically his own business so he has a lot of free time.
Am I being cheated on?
TLDR: my boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me.