Hi all,
Just to preface, i have been in a relationship with my gf for over a year. We really like each other and I want it to work out. She is currently out of the country for a few weeks.
Went to the club with my group of friends, including my best friend, his gf, and two of his gf’s friends. Let’s call the friend in question Ashley. At the club, we were meeting my 4 guy friends from school. All these guy friends are also friends with my GF.
Ashley has very recently become single after a toxic relationship and is more outgoing and friendly and touchy. She asked me if I knew anyone that is also single, so I tried gassing up and wingmanning two of my guy friends that are supposed to meet us, which both are her type. In addition, She is fully aware that I am in a relationship, as i bring up my GF many times in conversation.
When we were at the club, my male friend immediately started hitting it off with her. I told him that she may be interested and to play it cool. As the night progressed we were all dancing 1 on 1 with each other (guys with girls) and I danced with a few of my female friends. No big deal, we do this all the time. My guy friends sometimes dance with my GF and i sometimes dance with their GF. Think more of like a ballroom/salsa type dance so very PG like.
Eventually, Ashley and my male friend start to kiss and make out. I just looked the other way and kept dancing. Eventually, Ashley comes back to me and says she’s actually not interested in him at all, then asks me to dance. I think nothing of it as I have already been friendly dancing with my female friends that were there.
After we stopped dancing, she was super flirty with me. She began touching and holding my arm around the club when we were moving through the crowd. She was also laughing hard at my jokes and touching my leg. I was not reciprocating, just was focused on being myself and having a good time.
I didn’t have the balls to tell her to stop, as nothing was over the top, but she was getting very close to crossing the line. I feel guilty that I she was doing this to me with my GF not around, and I didn’t shut her down. My male friends still think they have a shot with her and want to ask her on dates.
Should I tell my GF about this? Or avoid hanging with her and let it blow over?
TLDR; best friend’s GF’s friend got a little drunk and flirty with me when my GF was not around. i didn’t reciprocate but tried setting her up with my friends instead.