To make a long story short my boyfriend(21M) and I(20F) began dating because of our emotional/friendship connection rather than a sexual one.
When we met I was a virgin and he’d had prior experience with plenty of girls and still was involved with many girls during our “talking stage.” Eventually he “chose” me and always would say it was never about the sex.
I still often find myself struggling how to make sex better for him as I’m not sure how to interact during doggy, on my stomach, etc. He does tell me that I ride him really well (just not for long i have bad knees😭) and that my head is decent.
He also tells me often that it feels like he’s just stroking inside me to make himself cum rather than me being the one to do it. But we’ve recently had a conversation where he expressed that our sexual chemistry isn’t the best and that our sex isn’t either.
Overall I just need some insight on how i can become more comfortable in the bedroom to initiate, have more energy, and to make things better for him. And also are there ways to build sexual chemistry or is it something you can’t fix?!