Me (29F) my boyfriend (39M) says that I should listen more and that it’s a deal breaker what should I do?

My boyfriend of almost 2 years says I should listen to him more and cater to him more. Currently I just lost my job so I’m staying home going to school while he’s working but he feels like I should clean up after him and cater to him because that’s “perks of having a girlfriend” but like I told him he’s over grown and capable of cleaning up his trash that he just throws around on the floor. It was our agreement for me to take care of the household while he works and pays the bills until I finish school cool no problem I’ll cook and clean everyday and whatever but he expects me to clean up his candy trash paper and empty water bottle he just leaves around and throws on the floor that’s his “perks of having a girlfriend” but I can’t be a mother to my boyfriend