Hi.
I am 19 years old and I just finished my first years of undergraduate degree in physics. I am a very lonely person, I almost have no friends for 5 years already and I desperately want that to change. I thought college would give me more opportunities to meet new people. But I only have five people in my class apart from me (no exaggeration here, physics is very unpopular where I live). Three of them I've known from high school and I have no way of maintaining any friendship with them. Rest of my colleagues are very asocial people who don't want to see anyone in their free time.
Now this is the problem. I have noone to go out with and made no connection in my class and have no way of getting to people from other classes. I have no social life. How do I create one?
Do I just approach people on campus or would that be too intrusive? When is approaching other people ok?
I've gotten some advice on approaching people in nightclubs (actually one specific but I wouldn't like to give out too much info about where I live) but I'm just clueless on how to talk to anyone over extremely loud music. And since I have nobody to go with I often go alone and it kinda makes me sad because everyone else is with their friends and I'm just alone. Can I talk to new people in clubs even when they are in groups. And how do I approach without looking wierd?
If you have any more advice I would be very grateful. Thank you in advance 🙂