I had 2 relationships of 3 years with guys that were heavily addicted to drugs, one was a couple of months ago and I met my partner now just after. We are 8 months together now.
I had a lot of difficulties with abuse and lies in these relationships and that’s why I am totally against drugs, I have never used anything in my life.
My partner now wants to use drugs sometimes when he has a party of when he goes to a festival, I told him about the things I went through and i really don’t know how to handle this.
Talking about my feelings towards it doesn’t seem to help and I feel bad because I don’t want to deny him anything, he says I need to think if I can accept it and really want to be together.
Does anyone have some advice? Thank you