This is my first relationship so i understand i won’t be with her forever or anything perfect i just can’t get myself to let go. (both 18 m & f)
My relationship with my gf has been going for 9 months now, it’s been great. Although it took a turn…
Few months ago, things got bad when her depression got worse and she was very busy and i wasn’t seeing her as often. I wanted to see her more but i felt as i got excuses when she were out with her friends instead. On multiple occasions i was flaked on for plans.
We barely call and i find it as hard to have a connection with somebody who doesn’t want to put the energy back to me. She doesn’t flirt back often and we haven’t been sexually intimate since January other then casual kisses. I don’t care for sex that extremely but i don’t even get complimented lol.
graduation is coming soon and i feel like i’ve been held on a hook. i love her a lot but i feel as though she hasn’t considered much of anything that i’ve done for her or my efforts.
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Tell her how you feel brah
You don’t care for sex?! OMG. Break it off. Have a summer fling and fuck like rabbits. Relationships shouldn’t make you miserable! You should be having fun before being tossed into adulthood.
It sounds like she’s not your person and your expectations were too high too soon. It sounds like it’s time to end things very kindly.