Lately, I've taking some meds that make the usual orgasms a little bit uncomfortable, like I feel a tightness in my penis like I'm forcing too much pee out or something. It kinda ruins the experience.
So I thought, maybe now would be a good time to look into other forms of pleasure. So I finally got over the whole "putting things up my ass thing" as a straight guy and brought a male prostate massager. It's one of those ones that's silicone and curved upwards to hit the male g-spot ,and also has a another protrusion that presses against the taint.
When I finally got it in (gently, with lube of course) it felt weird, as I thought it would. Mine vibrates, so I was trying all the different vibration options… but none of them really did anything for me. I was watching porn to try and arouse myself but instinctfully I was like… "why don't I just touch my penis," but instead I have this feeling in my ass.
I thought, maybe it's because I'm sitting at my computer chair, and looked up how you're supposed to do it. Apparently it's better to be laying down or on all fours.
I tried laying down and I finally started to feel …. something nice as I was watching porn on my phone. The hardest part is, as a straight guy, the mental connection. If I see a hot girl, I imagine her fucking me or sucking my dick as I'm stroking. But because the main feeling is in my ass, there's this disconnection. In a way, I guess that's a good thing, because it forces me to focus on the pleasure itself.
I finally found that there was precum dribbling out of my penis, even though I was soft as I could possibly be. I was feeling something as I could feel my breaths shortening, but nothing like I was heading towards a climax. Eventually, I just went "fuck it" and I jacked off to completion, to a pretty actually powerful orgasm, but nothing spectacular.
So I imagine I'm probably doing like 100 things wrong, right? What advice do you guys have for me that might make this experience better so that I can finally acheive that golden prostate orgasm?