What advice would you give to a 26 year old man wanting to change his life?

So basically I want to do a "reset" on my life. I don't know if there are any other men that have been in this situation that could shed light on this. I was kind of a loner in school, I didn't really have any friends. I sat alone at lunch a lot and always had a hard time fitting in with other people. I've never had a girlfriend. I also didn't go to college, which I know is a great way for younger people to socialize/meet others. Despite that though I've worked in Culinary Arts my entire life (started at 18) and managed to work my way up to a Head Chef by age 25. I also just recently passed $100K net worth. $45K in my HYSA, $26K in my Roth IRA, and $31K in my $401K. Debt free. So I would think that I'm doing better financially than a lot of people my age. I've been really thinking about it a lot though and when I'm analyzing what I want my life to look like in my later years: I want to get married to a woman that loves and cares about me, I want to have kids and a family. I want to be an amazing husband/father, and hopefully a grandfather one day. It just seems like dating is such a shitshow now. I've been also wanting to do some traveling as I got my passport last year. It would fun to visit other countries. Basically I want to start living a more fulfilling and meaningful life. Are there any other men that have been in a similar situation of wanting to seriously change their lives and how did it go for you? If there's anybody with advice I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you!