Alright, recruits, listen up! Today we're diving deep into the trenches of dating warfare, and I've got some top-secret intel that'll blow your love life wide open. Pay attention, 'cause this is the kind of stuff they don't teach you in boot camp. Ready? Let's go!

First off, women patch up their insecurities with men. What the hell does that mean? Two things, troops: Internal and External.

Internal Insecurities: Every woman’s got a history. Maybe she grew up dirt poor, maybe she got pushed around, maybe she had to share the spotlight with a sibling who needed extra care. The point is, she's got scars you can't see. You don’t need to play therapist, just understand she's got gaps to fill.

Your mission, soldier, is to find those gaps and fill 'em. And for those whining about "manipulation," cool your jets. Giving water to a thirsty person makes you a hero, not a villain. Same goes for meeting someone’s needs. Play your cards right, and you'll be her hero for life. Remember, humor's your secret weapon. Make her laugh, and you'll forge an emotional bond stronger than titanium. Most people out there don’t laugh enough, but everyone wants to. It's a basic human craving.

External Insecurities: Her environment shapes what she wants. If you’re in Germany, seeing Porsches everywhere, it’s gonna make people crave one. On the countryside, no one gives a damn about your fancy ride. They’ve got different values. Same goes for the ladies. Check out her friends and family. She's a reflection of the people she spends the most time with. Figure out what they value, and you’ll get a read on her too. Find out what her environment offers that she lacks, and fill those gaps, soldier.

Now, what's the secret weapon that covers all these bases? Raw confidence.

Yeah, yeah, I know. You've heard it before. But let me break it down for you. Confidence is like a multipurpose tool in your dating arsenal. It makes you funny without trying, strong without being defensive, and brave enough to take risks that don’t seem so scary anymore. You’ll look more attractive to others and yourself, get calmer, more determined, and ready to smash your goals.

If you wanna know how to build this ironclad confidence and supercharge your dating game, drop a comment. I’ll whip up another essay that'll turn you into a confident dating machine.

Dismissed!


29 comments

  1. I’m a woman, but you because you said men only, I had to read it. Haha. Keep up the good work sergeant

  4. This got me hyped up after being ghosted on after a second date that I thought went great. Thank you brother 😎 and yes I definitely need those confidence secrets, because my confidence is non-existent 🙏🙏

  6. What about managing men’s insecurities as a woman? Would be curious to hear your thoughts on that!

  9. This is basically advice to appeal to a person’s shadow self. When you see someone the way they want to be seen, or valued for what they want to be valued for, people tend to bond to you.

  12. Your solution to her internal insecurities is providing external validation?

    Internal work is internal. You can’t fix people for themselves.

    🙄

    What if relationships aren’t conflicts and treating them like one is a sure way to create them?

    Date people who are fulfilled with themselves, and become datable by doing your own soul searching. If you only exist to serve their emptiness, you either need to ensure that their emptiness never fills or they always need you.

    Not a great dynamic

  13. Are you aware of the reputation that military men and women have gained regarding these things?

    Maybe lose the jargon.

  14. I love this!!!! (37F here) but I appreciate E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G you wrote. ❤️💜

  16. Yeah what is this about building confidence? Haven’t felt confident in about a decade. I’m 26 btw.

  18. I’m saluting to this advice and my arms aren’t up if you know what I mean.

  21. 100% agreed.
    Dating is about psychology. The only dating material needed is Robert Greene.

  22. > Your mission, soldier, is to find those gaps and fill ’em.

    I would have already got disciplined by laughing at this point.

  24. Corny, you better hope the girls you’re seeing don’t find this cause I shriveled up.

  25. **Have a Game Plan:** Approach dating like a mission. Know what you’re looking for and what your goals are. Are you looking for something casual or serious? Have a clear strategy and stick to it.

  27. Every single drill sergeant I have known is divorced divorcing or single. I would just like to point that out. I’m not saying it’s them it’s the job and the hours and everything else that goes with it. I always felt a bit bad for them… After they were done yelling of course.

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