Hi –
Me (M30) feeling a little stifled by my relationship but not sure if these behaviors are considered controlling or not.
Some things that have raised eyebrows over my 10-month relationship with my partner (F32):
-has tried to tell me how I feel about our relationship when we have had arguments and I tried to express feelings.
-asked me to stop seeing my therapist who was making me question our relationship
-likes constant texting communication and has gotten anxious when replies arent immediate
-broadly feel like the relationship has moved at my partner's pace
Some of these things aren't recurring issues, and I do mostly enjoy my partners company and we have a lot of fun together.
But jw if these would be considered big red flags or signs of a controlling partner?