I am not claiming to be mother Teresa or Ghandi but I really have a huge issue. When someone hurt me verbally/psychologically or even physically I tend to forget easily the hurt or mistreatment and I forgive them.
I don’t do this because I am scared or afraid of them, but rather because I give them excuses and I try to find explanations for their misbehavior.
I believe that people are inherently good and that life circumstances tinted them with hate, aggression and anger.
I am not at all full of love or butterflies but I can easily forgive a person like nothing happened even if that person was a stranger and he hurt me several times.
How do I become more resentful and more discerning of who deserves my forgiveness like other normal healthy Adults?