this is going to sound super messy and it definitely is. i want advice from this platform since none of you know me or know the others involved so the answers can be unbiased.
so i (27F) have been in a 3 year relationship with (25F) and it was absolutely perfect, euphoric, amazing in every way for the first maybe year and a half. i started to become less and less interested as time went on. i tried to fight those feelings and i felt like a terrible person for losing interest but i can’t help it. we do everything together. we have a lot of pets together that mean the world to us. we have so many good memories and she is literally my best friend.
fast forward to January of this year (2024), i’m at work one day and i met this guy (28M) and was immediately interested. we flirted and hung out without anyone knowing (including my current partner) for a while and became closer and closer. it also helps that we both work in the same field so we can talk about that. may 1st, 2024 i found out i was pregnant with (28M) and was super excited. unfortunately i miscarried but we were both so excited and not ready to give up.
the problem i’m having is i want a family with (28M) so so bad. the physical and emotional attraction is there where with me and (25F) the attraction has been gone for a while. i know it was absolutely destroy (25F) if i ended our long-term relationship and it would also be very hard for me due to all of the memories, losing my best friend and not being able to see her pets.
TL;DR stuck between two people