I’ve been seeing a new guy for a little over a month. We are exclusive and while we are dating, sex is a big part of our relationship as we see each other very often (4-5 nights a week together since we first started going out). We are both mid-late 20s.
I consider him to be way out of my league, but for whatever reason he seems to find me attractive.
While the sex is very, very good, I find that a couple of times he seemed to struggle to stay hard or cum. I can tell that most of the time he’s trying to last as long as possible, and then it sometimes backfires and ends up struggling to cum from just being tired.
Most recently he seemed to struggle to get/stay hard after a romantic evening we had together.
I have kind of conventionally unattractive traits like stretch marks (loads on my butt and legs) and some cellulite. Sometimes I have some spots but it’s like one or two at a time maybe, if even that. I worry that sometimes he notices more and then loses his erection. But he still craves and wants to see me all the time, so maybe not? It’s confusing.
Why would he struggle to get hard, and is there anything I can do/improve to address it?