I’m an 18 M and don’t know what to do about my terrible anxiety related to sex. Any time I am able to have a hook up or there’s even the slight chance I might have sex I start to get a bad stomach ache and I start breathing wierd. I had a girlfriend for a few months last year (we broke up for other reasons) and I would come over and we would make out but her parents would be home so we wouldn’t have sex. But whenever she asked me to come when her parents weren’t home I would make some excuse to not go cause I would be so scared. I don’t know if this is because of performance or anything I don’t know.
It definitely affects my performance though which sucks. One time I was at my ex’s house and we were alone and I knew we might have sex and I was so scared. When we were making out my dick was not working. Then we realized her parents were coming home in 5 minutes and I had relief and then magically my dick starts working again. I don’t know what to do about this. For context I have OCD so it could be partly anxiety disorder.