Is there such a thing as a demeaning kink or something like that

I (25m) was told by a FWB that she didn't like certain things while we were having sex, etc.. for example I thought it was sexy if when I was about to finish I grabbed her head and finished on her face. And yes in retrospect we could have set clearer guidelines/rules. My question is I never thought of it as demeaning until she brought it up so I'm wondering if I have something like a demeaning kink or what 😅😰