So I started dating this girl a while back, this is my first ever relationship, she previously was in a serious relationship. We have seen quite a few things in perspective of ups and downs, loosing loved ones and supporting each other during tough times. Emotional connect is strong.
So, a few days back while making out we went a bit ahead and things flowed naturally and we were about to do the deed, when my member wasn't as firm as it would require to be, we tried it a couple of times and it wasn't proving any good. I was able to maintain an erection during the foreplay and also before the actual deed. I want to know is it ED or is it performance anxiety? Shall I seriously consider a doctor for this or go about taking sildenafil or similar things. I do pleasure myself and have been doing that for the past decade, is this also a factor?