I ask my bf31 kinda often what kind of stuff he likes, what he searches, or categories. Because I wanna be his fantasy, and also, I I have fetishs and I want him to be into weird shit, so it's easier to come out about mine more.
Last time I asked? He actually told me "chick's with dicks" this was exciting to me! Because it's been almost 5 years!, and finally, something fun! But he said it during four play, and he WILL NOT talk about it outside of intimacy. He also said one a couple times about pegging. And that's AWESOME!
When I've brought it up to him casually, about buying a strap online or something, he gets all weird and says no. I understand he's embarrassed… but it's me, man!! We do shit in the bedroom, but we're not allowed to talk about it… isn't that weird?? How could I get him to open up about it?? Why is he like that?
He says, "that was just bedroom talk" blah blah. Wtf??