My partner and I have been together for 2 years. We’ve had sex a few times but anything too regular. After communicating afterwards, and during, I’ve figured and she’s told me that she doesn’t know what her vagina looks like down there. This is an issue as she usually leaves discharge or toilet paper down there after she does her business. (Business as in 🚽) She’s also very loyal, never watched porn or has pleasured herself, however this too is an issue as it’s hard to pleasure her as she doesn’t know or communicate what’s good for her or what she wants. What can I do? I also would like for her to try and initiate and turn me on by giving before hand or wearing lingerie or foreplay, I’ve mentioned this to her a few times and I assume she doesn’t know what to do as not much has changed. I’m also worried I’m not doing enough for her before hand, I try with foreplay etc But what else can I do? I’ll mention to her I’d like to have sex somewhere else, different positions and maybe toys?
Sorry and thanks all