I (50F) have hit a period of life where I want sex constantly. I think about it nonstop and would want it at least daily. My husband (53M) definitely appears 100% into it when it's happening but it ends up being more like once per week.
Question: Is it possible for a man to go through the motions but actually not want sex? I'm wondering whether he'd rather have way less sex… He thinks we have sex more than once per week but we definitely don't lol
Is it possible for a man to have sweaty, enthusiastic sex but still think of it as a chore?
Maybe it's just my conscience from previous years when sex felt like a chore to me.