Am I the only one struggling to find love? I’m a 28F with no kids and have never been married. Lately, I’ve been feeling incredibly lonely, especially seeing that most of my friends are married, including some who are younger than me.
I’ve tried dating sites, but nothing seems to be working out. Physically, I think I look good. I have a light complexion, curvy figure, and a bright smile. I have a secure career in healthcare, which I’m really proud of. When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me indoors chilling, reading a book, sleeping, or watching a movie. I occasionally go out partying with my friends, but I generally prefer a quiet night in.
I’m starting to wonder what the problem might be. Am I too picky? I haven’t been in a relationship for the past four years, and it's starting to weigh on me. I’ve been on dating sites, tried going out more, and even joined a few social groups to meet new people, but nothing has clicked.
I feel like I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I’m kind, caring, and have a good sense of humor. I value good communication and believe in building a strong emotional connection. I just can’t seem to find someone who I connect with on that level.
Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do to overcome it? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.