I (23F) was having consensual sex with my (now ex) fiancé (23M) and at some point it got really rough and I started screaming and crying, although I never told him to stop or said anything at all. It went on for a little bit before he finally stopped and told me he was sorry as I was shaken and crying at that point. However he just flipped me around and continued with me in a less painful position after that even though I think I looked very visibly shaken and tears were still in my eyes.
I ended up telling him later that the incident disturbed me and I never really got a meaningful apology or explanation for what happened. I’m confused as to what this would be classified as but it left me feeling uncomfortable.
Is this rape or something else? I know I consented to begin with and I never withdrew it during but I feel disturbed that my pain was either ignored or unnoticed by him.