My wife (46) and I (49) have been married for 25 years. We have gone through the typical phases of sex that comes with raising a family. Now that we are empty nesters the marriage bed is heating up again.
We recently incorporated mutual masturbation into our mostly vanilla sex life. This was a huge step for my conservative wife who has some sexual trauma baggage she has to deal with. I can say that masturbating together has super charged our sex life! If you don't incorporate this in your marriage, I highly recommend it! It brings a new level of sensuality and excitement!
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Once you get past the raising of your kids. Us parents revert back to teenagers and it’s amazing. Good for you!!!
Congrats — happy for you guys!
I always hope that something like this may be around the bend for my wife (44f) — just seems like she always bumps up against this pretty low threshold of what is interesting and sexy and comfortable for her, and I often wonder if there’s another level for her, that she’s never been in the right mindspace to tap into. Maybe, just maybe, one day we’ll find out. Thanks for sharing your story.
Mutual masturbation is far more intimate than one would expect. One of our favorite activities.
Sometimes we let next to each other and watch each other. Other times I’ll kneel next to her or between her legs. Usually finishing on her body. We try to time our orgasms together
I’m hoping this is the case for us. So far , the bedroom is deader than disco .