Hi update to the previous post –
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/s/8cVi7d9Itb
Big thing I forgot to mention was I was a virgin at the time. Never kissed anyone either. Part of why I didn’t make a move.
Anyways, last weekend – I 26m invited her 27f over for a night in after we both worked. We watched a movie and quickly went to cuddling on the couch. Quicker to be more handsy this time. Cuddled in bed for a bit. Didn’t think we could get physically closer but we did. Told her I was going to move at her pace, what she was comfortable with. That conversation turned me to telling her I hadn’t kissed and still a virgin… was quickly not a virgin there after. Had no idea what I was doing but we did well. Cuddled some more and went at it again in the morning. She left in the afternoon after just holding each other close and pillow talk.
I really enjoyed the physical touch and intimacy with her. Part of me is hesitant because friends for a while but I am open to whatever direction this goes – friends/fwb/exclusive etc. I will talk to her about it the next time we are together and see how she wants to approach it all.
TLDR: Cuddled with friend again. I was a virgin and now I’m not. Will talk to her about what we want next time we see each other.