Ive recently lost my virginity, my boyfriend and I have attempted to have sex 4 times so far.
Every time is excruciatingly painful, and makes me bleed a considerable amount. Only half of his length can go inside of me, and even just that amount hurts me a ton. We haven’t been able to actually “finish” a single time, it always hurts too much that we have to stop.
We are doing good foreplay and using lots of lube, but nothing helps. I’ve never had problems with bleeding or pain from using tampons/diva cups or masturbation so i’m not sure what the problem is during sex.
none of my friends that i’ve asked have had this much pain when they started having sex.
Any advice/things to try?