Okay so a few details about our sex life,
We have sex very regularly, usually everyday sometimes multiple times a day. Rarely do we go more than 2 days without sex.
The issue we are facing:
Sometimes I don’t feel like having sex at night, because I’m tired or just not in the mood. When this happens and I tell my husband no he starts treating me badly, giving me the cold shoulder, won’t say goodnight or I love you, or he will start calling me names, yelling at me and getting mad. He will sometimes repeatedly enter my room and harass me for hours. He will also sometimes take my phone from me or threaten to leave in the middle of the night. He has actually left once or twice to do who knows what.
The next morning he acts like nothing happened or if I bring it up he acts like I’m the only one in the wrong.
This is damaging our relationship and making me not want to have sex at all at the same time I’m scared if I don’t have sex that I will suffer these consequences.
How do I make him realize how wrong this is?