So my fwb 19F is used to masturbating with large dildos which are far larger than i am (for reference im about 6.5 ish). This has lead her to not really being able to orgasm from sex and i really would like to give her that.
Your first thought is probably to just introduce the dildo into our sex play. It was mine too dw. But i brought this up to her and she said no because it kills the intimacy for her apparently.
She also finds butt plugs Uncomfortable.
I also brought up fisting which she said she found too chunky though i dont think she's had much experience with it so it may be something to revisit (also apparently she tried it without lube which… ouch).
So yeah, all thoughts, suggestions and kinks are welcome as she is fairly open minded for the most part.
Suggested positions and tricks would be good.